The Human Factor

1 Peter 3:7  Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.

Notice that Peter tells us men to live in an understanding way. We are to try to understand our wives.

One of the differences between husbands and wives is that men want to be  understood and women want to be loved.

No problem on the surface.

It’s when we get to the differing definitions of what each perceives to be “understanding” or “love.”

One wit has said that men want to be loved a little and understood a lot. Women want to be loved a lot–but don’t try to understand them at all.

From the world’s point of view, we can laugh at that; but that is not God’s word to us.

Men are to live with their wives in an understanding way.

That takes effort. Maybe even lifelong effort.

We must understand the HUMAN factor in this equation, however.

Men are human–which is an accurate acronym for the situation.

Husbands Understand Mates Almost Never

Wives must also understand the human factor when they get frustrated with their husband’s seeming lack of concern.

Husband Understands Me Almost Never.

And there you have it–the human factor explained.

God Said, NO!

I asked God to take away my habit.
God said, No.
It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.

I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said, No.
His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary.

I asked God to grant me patience.
God said, No.

Patience is a byproduct of tribulations;
it isn’t granted, it is learned.

I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No.
I give you blessings;
Happiness is up to you..
I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, No.
Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.

I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, No.
You must grow on your own,
but I will prune you to make you fruitful.

I asked God for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, No.
I will give you life,
so that you may enjoy all things.

I asked God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me.
God said…Ahhhh,
finally you have the idea.